MEME REFERENCE
pouring gas on fire
Use when making an already bad conflict or failure substantially worse
- What it expresses
- The action intensifies an existing negative situation through additional harm
- Example
- Two teammates are already arguing, and a third forwards an insulting old message into the thread; label that intervention as gasoline.
- When not to use it
- A mediator lowers the temperature and clarifies the misunderstanding; productive de-escalation does not feed the fire.